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Being Authentic
Being authentic
What does that mean?
In the Cambridge dictionary, it states that Authenticity Is the quality of being real or true:
If you are in tune with yourself and know who you are, then being authentic is your natural state of being. You will be in touch with how you feel and what is right for you and you will be able to speak your mind when something does not feel right for you.
From my perspective, growing up I was taught (indirectly) that putting others needs before myself was the way to survive. Throughout my childhood and early adulthood, I truly did not know what I wanted or how I felt about things.
When I was older externally, I appeared to have a successful life. I had a family that loved me, children and a good career in management. But I always felt empty inside. When something negative happened, I could not understand how I felt in that moment, and it would take time for my feelings to rise to the surface. At times I felt that I was going crazy.
I would agree with people around me and go along with what others wanted. I was seen as easy going and fun to be around. I took responsibility for others feelings and felt that I could not speak my truth in case this hurt others – which would be my fault.
Subconsciously, my belief was by not rocking the boat others would like me and I would be safe, but inside I was dying, vulnerable and alone.
To become the person I am today has taken work both internally and externally. I have had to learn what I believe and identify what is important to me.
I have developed boundaries and can negotiate with my significant others and the rest of the world in general. I now live an authentic life which at times can cause conflict with others, but I have learnt tools to be able to process my feeling healthily. By being myself, it also supports and allows others to be themselves around me because I accept who they are.
How do you learn to be authentic.
Essentially it takes work especially if you have spent your life hiding in the shadows.
You will need to define your core beliefs negative and positive.
Question why you have those beliefs and think the way you do.
With support, you will be able to change your negative beliefs and develop more empowering ones.
Please also be aware that as you start to develop yourself, it will at times be scary.
You learnt to be inauthentic for a reason, a way of surviving in relationship to the others around you.
Don’t give up though because step by step you will evolve into a more balanced happier person.
I have been coaching women since 2012 and in that time I have found Love and Relationship aren’t like they used to be. Technology, texting, Facebook, online dating, gaming, social networking, porn, email, the economy have all changed how dating works, how we communicate in relationships, and how private we can be.
Men seem to be more confused and less interested in commitment, dating feels like a minefield. Your girlfriends aren’t having success in love, and it’s easy to commiserate with them and give up. It’s easy to say there are no good men out there, or buy-in to the lie that you’re “just not meant to be happy in love.”
It’s easy to search out “experts” who promise strategies and “rules” with men, and to try to find out simple solutions to your complex situation – and it’s disappointing when you don’t get the results you want.
That’s why I became a love and relationship coach, and because of the way I work – I know I can help you with your unique situation in a different way. A way that WORKS.
No matter what we read and what videos we watch, we’re all held back in love by our past training. We all have specific “systems” in place that chain us to our old patterns and old results.
We start a great, hot relationship with a man, and then feel devastated when he suddenly disappears. Or when the fighting or disinterests starts.
Coaching With Me Will Give You the Answers and Solutions You Want If:
You can’t quite understand why love feels so hard to attract, even though you’re a loving and committed woman.
Dating feels exhausting or frustrating, and a part of you expects to be disappointed again.
You think you’ve finally met someone with potential… but he turns out to be another man who isn’t emotionally ready or unsure of what he wants.
The man you’re with feels distant — he’s pulling back, giving less affection, avoiding intimacy, or telling you he’s “confused” about his feelings.
You’re feeling more insecure than you expected to — even though you started out confident when he was still pursuing you.
You notice he’s on your mind constantly, and it feels like you’re slowly losing the version of yourself who was once strong, grounded, and self-assured.
You’re married or in a committed relationship and feel stuck with a partner who is now disinterested and emotional shutdown.
The logistics of your relationship are complicated — distance, children, or an involved ex-partner create additional pressure.
You feel uneasy about potential “other women” in his life, even when they’re framed as just friends, but it just feels off.
These are just some of the problems I can help you with.
Rori Raye developed a system of Tools called Have The Relationship You Want – and because I’m Certified personally by Rori to use those Tools – I can get results for you quickly. Results that’ll surprise you, shock the man you love now into seeing you completely differently, or “snap-to” the man you’re about to meet.
It’s a system of “Modern Siren” Tools that work with your natural personality and everything you’ve learned in your love life up to now – to turn everything you believe about men, love and relationship on its head and get you what you truly want!
Because I’m so confident I can help you, I want to offer you an opportunity to get a free “Try-Out” coaching session with me. Let me know a little bit about your situation in the booking form, and if I feel I can help you quickly, we’ll schedule a time to work together.
